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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: Today at 03:54:47 AM »
To paraphrase LBJ's, "if I've lost Cronkite, I've lost America", if the AGW crowd has lost Europe, they've lost the world.  It all comes down to jobs and money. Duh. Maybe someone should tell our President to ditch the climate change Luddite BS and pay attention to what's going on, despite him. I'm sure government money will keep going down the AGW rat hole, all that matters from those feeding off it. Lose those jaunts to 5 star resorts in Cancun, S. Africa, Bali? Suicide watch for Mann and McKibben?

Is Europe Giving Up On Green Energy?


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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: Yesterday at 09:34:21 AM »

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 22, 2013, 05:34:22 PM »
On the race questions you ask, I'd hope you'd try to discredit the views you mention, and that'd be the point. IMO, Spanier's point is to make it(ms) okay. I'm not going to search for it, but someone posted that he stated, "deviance is in the eye of the beholder" regarding mate swapping, and "it's okay, as long as everyone(spouses I suppose he means) knows about it." Would you say that's true in questions of racism?

Kid, the purpose of research is to publish the results of the research, not to insert the author's opinion. Nowhere does Spanier & Cole say that swapping is OK. They merely state that the results of the research available to them did not prove swapping was harmful to the relationship.

From their paper.....

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Finally, while further research needs to be done which will illuminate the impact of mate swapping on marital and family cohesion,, the evidence available to date offers no evidence to suggest that mate-swapping is harmful to marital or family stability.

I know you do not believe that morals are in the eye of the beholder. Here's something to ponder. If they are not, if morals, right and wrong are absolute, so crystal clear, why are there many religions?

Re "so many religions" most have a minimum, or basic rules of behavior. But I'm a believer in Judeo-Christian ethics. If others deviate from that much, I'd question it. Is that prejudiced? I guess.

Re the family stability, not buying it. They hide it from the children. C'mon, Tim. Sure, you can be an axe murderer as well and get away with it. Or Bernie Madoff, and for 20 years get away with it, in secret, keeping a stable family until it collapses. You can't live a lie, IMO, and adultery is a lie. I don't see it as okay. I know guys that do it. Who doesn't? 

I wouldn't want a president who wrote on the phenomenon of bestiality, nor one who wrote on the phenomenon of masturbation, despite not taking a stance on those either, and I see nothing wrong with the latter(otherwise I'm in trouble). But it's not a topic I want written about by someone running a college.  I think we've both made our points.

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 22, 2013, 05:16:10 PM »
Why Rational People Buy Into Conspiracy Theories
By MAGGIE KOERTH-BAKER
Published: May 21, 2013 234 Comments

Why does there seem to be so many stories about "confirmation bias" and "pre-coceived notions"? It's like when you disagree with a point of view, it's because you're biased? And it's always the other guy, though she does pepper the article from both sides. Maybe the writer(s) has confirmation bias and she doesn't see it. I particularly liked this.

Our access to high-quality information has not, unfortunately, ushered in an age in which disagreements of this sort can easily be solved with a quick Google search. In fact, the Internet has made things worse. Confirmation bias — the tendency to pay more attention to evidence that supports what you already believe — is a well-documented and common human failing. People have been writing about it for centuries. In recent years, though, researchers have found that confirmation bias is not easy to overcome. You can’t just drown it in facts.

I'll post a conspiracy theory: The NY Times is doing almost everything to avoid the current WH scandals. Yesterday, having a Catholic church scandal article was nothing but deflecting attention from the WH to their normal punching bag. And this confirmation bias thing? And the internet making things worse? Does that mean, they don't want us to read the internet, because they don't want us to see the current 'hot' news? I mean, hasn't the WH stated that Drudge isn't news? It's the #1 site on the internet. The WH can't control it, so they want it destroyed. Isn't this sort of typical based on what we are currently learning? Welcome to Chicago.

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 21, 2013, 06:41:00 PM »
Are we on the cusp of a solar energy boom?

Church Whistle-Blowers Join Forces on Abuse

Innovation Lessons from the Rise of Tesla Motors


I have no doubt solar will make it. These things take time. The transistor was discovered in 1949. The first silicon semiconductor maybe the late '50's, transistor radios in the early 60's. And now? Wow. 3 people at Bell Labs won the Nobel Prize for the transistor. You just need private funding, and a small group working on the science. Throwing money at it before it's ready for prime time not smart, IMO. Use what's cheaper til it's competitive.

Nothing like the NY Times to print a church scandal to avoid the WH scandal. The tabloids at the supermarket checkout counters are doing a better job covering the WH situation than the NY Times. It's a disgrace. So much easier to focus on the church, like Star Wars, "nothing to see here. Move on. But look at the church". No wonder the paper's circulation is tanking. Q for you Tim: are you not aware the Times is avoiding the WH scandals and this is a ploy to deflect attention? I mean did you actually fall for this, or are you doing the same thing?

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 06:29:04 PM »

I don't think writing a paper on the subject is immoral.  Nor do I think it's speaks to the morality of the writer.

Okay. When asked if he thought mate swapping was deviant, Spanier answered, "Deviance is in the eye of the beholder." Look, I'm no saint, but this is moral equivalence, basically as Pat Moynihan stated, "we've defined deviancy down." Outlaw mate swapping? Of course not. But study it, and write on it. Sorry, not the guy I would have as what's essentially a moral leader. How is someone like this to convey dedication, commitment, sacrifice, loyalty? He states that mate swapping is okay, as long as everyone knows about it, not kept secret. I mean, isn't the breakdown of the American family great enough without the stress of adultery? And if not kept secret between spouses, what if children find out? That's okay? I don't agree. Too many problems in the world, not to add a potential other one to what's the most personal thing in a relationship.

By now, everyone knows that I think Spanier is a spineless and useless POS, but I gotta say I don't agree with you on this.

(FTR...  I still fully expect you to mis-interpret what I say and repeat your same statement over and over again regardless)

I agree with Spanier.  "Deviance is in the eye of the beholder."

You can back up 50 years and say the same thing about a homosexual relationship back in the 1960's.  Heck , you could say the same thing about a blow job or the use of oils or other 'toys' back in the 1960's.
-It's immoral.
-It's devient.
-What if the kids find out?
-It's another sign of what's wrong in the world today

I would trade a fine, upstanding, high moral person that stood by while Penn State's reputation burned, for a orgy-happy homo that would have stood up and nipped this whole scandal in the bud.

I don't think Adolph Hitler and Eva Braun were swingers.  FDR and Churchill may have fooled around a bit (not with each other  :P )Does anyone care?     :-\

Why does everyone think I'm going to misinterpret what they say? In your case with this post, I won't misinterpret it, cause I can't interpret it. I do see you're giving a false dichotomy. A fine upstanding, high moral person is unlikely to stand by, and an orgy happy homo may also be a fine high moral person. I just don't want someone who says 'deviant behavior becomes deviant only when others define it as deviant'. That's moral equivalence, plain and simple. There is black and white; there is right and wrong. It's not in the eyes of the beholder, nor how one defines it. There are codes of acceptable behavior, and adultery ain't one of them. Neither is killing, stealing, lying or cheating. You think those are in the eyes of the beholder?

I brought this up because IMO, Spanier should never had been hired. Anyone who put in print, in 1975, that 'deviant behavior becomes deviant only when others define it as deviant' is not a guy who should run a school. Bad vetting, IMO. I'm not surprised how he acted in the JS affair, because maybe he believed it wasn't really deviant behavior on JS' part. 'I mean, who are we to judge?' type of reaction. Actually, it wasn't bad vetting. This is what higher education has become.  Read the Mansfield link I posted. This is typical of the college campus today.

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 06:09:57 PM »
Spanier & Cole

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Researchers (e.g., Bartell, 1971; Denfeld and Gordon, 1970; Bell, 1971; Symonds, 1968) point out that most swingers go to a great deal of trouble to keep their unusual sexual habits unknown to children, neighbors, and business associates. Within the circle of swingers, however, discussion about past swinging experiences, personal preferences in couples, positions, and form of sexual interaction is abundant. Many swingers will go to any necessary extreme to conceal their identity and will reveal it only when a trusting relationship with another swinging couple has been established. But, when among swingers, couples talk freely about their lives since becoming swingers and more specifically about sex. It is clear from this difference that swingers often fear becoming considered "deviant" by their "straight" friends and associates, but that among swingers the only things considered deviant are other nonconventional life styles or habits not related to sex (e.g., radical political views, avowed atheism, excessively long hair).

We choose to view deviant behavior simply as behavior that some value and others consider wrong. An individual's behavior becomes deviant only when others define it as deviant. Much of an individual's behavior can be viewed as a response to this "labeling." Mate swapping, then, can be viewed as either deviant or normal behavior, depending on who is viewing it and from what perspective it is being viewed. Walshok (1971) suggests that mate swapping is a special case of middle-class deviant behavior, serving as a functional alternative to sexual involvement such as prostitution, which is threatening to marriage.


O.E.D

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ˈdeviant, adj.
Deviating; divergent. spec. Deviating from normal social, etc., standards or behaviour.


Deviant is not just about right or wrong. In fact, I would say it is less about what is right or wrong and more about difference or being outside the norm.

Straight A students are outside the norm. They deviate from normal social behavior.

At one time slavery was within normal social standards. It was not considered to be a deviant practice.

In modern, civilized societies, cannibalism is considered to be deviant behavior, because it is outside the normal, accepted social practices. However, if there are still societies somewhere, where cannibalism is still practiced, it would not be deviant behavior because it is within their social norms.

Amongst a group of swingers, swinging would not be deviant. Among society at large it is.

deviant ≠ morally wrong

Among a group of swingers, it wouldn't be considered deviant as in outside the norm, because within their group, it is the norm. Nor would they consider it to be deviant as in morally wrong, because within their group it is not viewed as being wrong. Among society as a whole, swinging is considered to be deviant because it lies outside the norm, and deviant as in wrong because most people consider it to be wrong.

Tim, I think you make my case for me. So, the swingers go to necessary lengths to conceal their habits from non-swingers, but are open with other swingers? Duh. Same with pedophiles. Of course if one is deviant and is with other deviants they are more comfortable. Thieves, drug dealers, NAMBLA members, you can say the same thing. That doesn't make it correct or acceptable behavior. C'mon Tim, this is nothing but moral equivalence. That's the problem, at least what I'm trying to state.

Go to a great deal of trouble to conceal it from neighbors, business associates, and children? Forget the first two, but concealing it from their own children? And you think that's okay, a healthy family environment? Wow. Maybe when the parents are out swinging, the 15 year old daughter can have sex with the the baby sitter. Then everybody's having fun.

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 05:57:32 PM »
http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF01541079#

" This article attempts to illuminate the understanding of swinging, or mate swapping, an increasingly common form of extramarital sexual activity. A theoretical formulation argues that swinging is a form of extramarital sexual activity which serves to define as good and acceptable a behavior that in other forms and in the past has been considered deviant or immoral."  A stratified area probability sample of 579 married adults was drawn from a Midwestern community of 40,000. Areas investigated included community knowledge and perception of swinging, values of respondents with regard to participation in and acceptance of swinging, and the incidence of swinging in the community. Most respondents disapproved of mate swapping as well as other forms of extramarital sex. Over half of the respondents knew about mate swapping, although less than 7% of the sample would consider participating. Swinging was found to exist in the community, but less than 2% of the respondents had ever participated. The data analysis is descriptive and exploratory, focusing on social correlates and characteristics.

When you wrote on racism, did you state that "a theoretical formulation argues that certain forms of racism serves to  define as good and acceptable a behavior that in other forms in the past was considered deviant and immoral?" If you wrote that, couldn't you be viewed as a racist?


I wonder if you're just struggling with the definition of "theoretical formulation".  You seem to think that Graham Spanier is promoting this "theoretical formulation", not that it's being researched in this paper.  If I wrote that the KKK theorizes that interracial marriages are leading to the breakdown of the American family, or that 7% of respondants belief that"Separate but Equal" laws worked, does that mean that I think that interracial marriages are bad or that I agree with racist laws?


But why study 'mate swapping?' How would you feel if a neighbor did a survey in your neighborhood about mate swapping? If you're married, asking your wife, "has she done it?", "would she consider doing it?", "how does she feel about it?"

On the race questions you ask, I'd hope you'd try to discredit the views you mention, and that'd be the point. IMO, Spanier's point is to make it(ms) okay. I'm not going to search for it, but someone posted that he stated, "deviance is in the eye of the beholder" regarding mate swapping, and "it's okay, as long as everyone(spouses I suppose he means) knows about it." Would you say that's true in questions of racism? IMO, nothing but moral equivalence on this matter re Spanier. Some think having Pat Califa support NAMBLA on campus is okay. I don't, and IMO, it shouldn't be tolerated. Read the Mansfield piece I linked. Sex week at Yale has prostitutes, paid by the school, to give lectures on sex acts. Sorry, this is not the mission of schools, IMO.

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 21, 2013, 04:29:03 PM »
mjg, you're probably right on my hit and misses. But with what's going on in the WH, I see this getting much worse, with multiple subpoenas, people taking the 5th, very messy. Look at the presser today. Journalists are furious. The honeymoon is officially over.


Wow. I've never been so accurate so quickly on any prediction. This is unreal. Explosive stuff.

To IRS Official to Take the 5th

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 04:25:15 PM »
He states that mate swapping is okay, as long as everyone knows about it, not kept secret. I mean, isn't the breakdown of the American family great enough without the stress of adultery? And if not kept secret between spouses, what if children find out? That's okay? I don't agree. Too many problems in the world, not to add a potential other one to what's the most personal thing in a relationship.


Can I assume that you got this from his paper?  Last I saw, I thought that you still hadn't read it.  Then again, I guess some right-wing blog had an article giving their take on it, so there must not be any reason to read it now.

I wrote a paper on racism once, so I guess I'm a racist.


Re the children, it's my question. He made no comment on the children, I'm asking it. Here's Spanier's abstract from the mate swapping paper.
He states that mate swapping is okay, as long as everyone knows about it, not kept secret. I mean, isn't the breakdown of the American family great enough without the stress of adultery? And if not kept secret between spouses, what if children find out? That's okay? I don't agree. Too many problems in the world, not to add a potential other one to what's the most personal thing in a relationship.


Can I assume that you got this from his paper?  Last I saw, I thought that you still hadn't read it.  Then again, I guess some right-wing blog had an article giving their take on it, so there must not be any reason to read it now.

I wrote a paper on racism once, so I guess I'm a racist.


Re the children, it's my question. He made no comment on the children, I'm asking it. This is from the abstract from his paper. I can only link the abstract, but the first two pages can be viewed, not linked, here.

http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF01541079#

" This article attempts to illuminate the understanding of swinging, or mate swapping, an increasingly common form of extramarital sexual activity. A theoretical formulation argues that swinging is a form of extramarital sexual activity which serves to define as good and acceptable a behavior that in other forms and in the past has been considered deviant or immoral."  A stratified area probability sample of 579 married adults was drawn from a Midwestern community of 40,000. Areas investigated included community knowledge and perception of swinging, values of respondents with regard to participation in and acceptance of swinging, and the incidence of swinging in the community. Most respondents disapproved of mate swapping as well as other forms of extramarital sex. Over half of the respondents knew about mate swapping, although less than 7% of the sample would consider participating. Swinging was found to exist in the community, but less than 2% of the respondents had ever participated. The data analysis is descriptive and exploratory, focusing on social correlates and characteristics.

When you wrote on racism, did you state that "a theoretical formulation argues that certain forms of racism serves to  define as good and acceptable a behavior that in other forms in the past was considered deviant and immoral?" If you wrote that, couldn't you be viewed as a racist?

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 21, 2013, 03:41:14 PM »
mjg, you're probably right on my hit and misses. But with what's going on in the WH, I see this getting much worse, with multiple subpoenas, people taking the 5th, very messy. Look at the presser today. Journalists are furious. The honeymoon is officially over.

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 21, 2013, 03:25:47 PM »
As many know, I like predictions. I was looking at the Curry watch, and when I predicted Curry being the best shooter since Ray Allen and Reggie Miller, some scoffed. One poster stated, "typical kid, over the top." Okay. Did I miss any big ones? Yes, Lance Stephenson killed the Knicks. Larry Bird called him the Pacers most talented player. My bad. Never thought he'd make it. But his skills have improved, and he's one rough SOB.

Anyway, turning to politics, not much here on current scandal. My prediction: it's going to get uglier and uglier, as more and more comes out. Don't know how true these stories are, but Roger Simon is no wing nut. If this is true? Oh, boy.

http://pjmedia.com/rogerlsimon/2013/05/21/pjm-exclusive-ex-diplomats-report-new-benghazi-whistleblowers-with-info-devastating-to-clinton-and-obama/

And this? This woman will be subpoenaed. Not sure where this all ends up, but the more lying done first, the worse it will be, IMO.

http://spectator.org/archives/2013/05/20/obama-and-the-irs-the-smoking


Two dunks per game.  Sasa will average double digits scoring.  Just to name two off the top of my head.

Actually, I can picture you as the type of guy who goes to twenty different horse racing web sites and predicts a different Kentucky Derby winner on each.  Then you pound the daylights out of the one site on which you picked the winner.  Do I have that about right?


Two dunks? Yeah, that was dumb, speculative.  Sasa, pretty bad too, but that was paired with Curry. Very speculative, as I hadn't seen him play. I mean, Curry is the best shooter in the league. Some didn't think he'd be drafted. I mean that's just nuts. Curry is outstanding, a franchise maker. Horse races, never go. Really only play poker, and even that's limited. On Lance, much bigger miss, IMO. I never thought he'd make it, and I saw him play up close, twice. He had limited skills, even at Cincinnati. He's quite the bruiser, and I just didn't think that was enough. But it's apparent it might be. He had 25 points and 10 RB's in closeout game. That's pretty dominating.

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 03:17:30 PM »

I don't think writing a paper on the subject is immoral.  Nor do I think it's speaks to the morality of the writer.

Okay. When asked if he thought mate swapping was deviant, Spanier answered, "Deviance is in the eye of the beholder." Look, I'm no saint, but this is moral equivalence, basically as Pat Moynihan stated, "we've defined deviancy down." Outlaw mate swapping? Of course not. But study it, and write on it. Sorry, not the guy I would have as what's essentially a moral leader. How is someone like this to convey dedication, commitment, sacrifice, loyalty? He states that mate swapping is okay, as long as everyone knows about it, not kept secret. I mean, isn't the breakdown of the American family great enough without the stress of adultery? And if not kept secret between spouses, what if children find out? That's okay? I don't agree. Too many problems in the world, not to add a potential other one to what's the most personal thing in a relationship.

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OT / Re: OT's GONE WILD!
« on: May 21, 2013, 11:58:57 AM »
As many know, I like predictions. I was looking at the Curry watch, and when I predicted Curry being the best shooter since Ray Allen and Reggie Miller, some scoffed. One poster stated, "typical kid, over the top." Okay. Did I miss any big ones? Yes, Lance Stephenson killed the Knicks. Larry Bird called him the Pacers most talented player. My bad. Never thought he'd make it. But his skills have improved, and he's one rough SOB.

Anyway, turning to politics, not much here on current scandal. My prediction: it's going to get uglier and uglier, as more and more comes out. Don't know how true these stories are, but Roger Simon is no wing nut. If this is true? Oh, boy.

http://pjmedia.com/rogerlsimon/2013/05/21/pjm-exclusive-ex-diplomats-report-new-benghazi-whistleblowers-with-info-devastating-to-clinton-and-obama/

And this? This woman will be subpoenaed. Not sure where this all ends up, but the more lying done first, the worse it will be, IMO.

http://spectator.org/archives/2013/05/20/obama-and-the-irs-the-smoking

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OT / Re: Jerry Sandusky - all relevant threads consolidated
« on: May 21, 2013, 11:52:03 AM »
Not sure anyone noticed the situation recently at Swarthmore, but being in PA, probably. Re what's going on at campuses, this fits right in, IMO, with the discussion on Spanier, and the lack of morality prevalent today.

http://www.realclearpolitics.com/articles/2013/05/21/wimps_versus_barbarians_118491.html

The cost of resistance to the campus barbarians may not have been the only factor. Resistance requires a sense that there is something worth defending. But decades of dumbed-down education have produced people with no sense of the importance of a moral framework within which freedom and civil discourse can flourish.

Without a moral framework, there is nothing left but immediate self-indulgence by some and the path of least resistance by others. Neither can sustain a free society. Disruptive activists indulge their egos in the name of idealism and others cave rather than fight.


Can't one suggest that maybe admin's handling of the JS affair was 'self-indulgent'? And papers on 'mate swapping?'


Seriously?  LMAO.


Moral framework. You don't think adultery is immoral? I'm not going to crucify someone for it, but it's immoral. Immoral and self-indulgent. And I don't see a president as having good moral bearings if this is among his interests. You do? You got kids? Talk to them about mate swapping?

Someone with stronger morals doesn't handle the JS affair in the manner he did. They don't think about implications, and be self indulgent as to how it will hurt them, they do what's right.

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